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Once upon a time, I was terrified to go to a café alone with my toddler. Add a newborn to the mix? It felt impossible. What if they cried? What if people stared? What if the whole thing was a disaster? Now? It’s one of my favorite solo mom rituals. Because there’s something deeply healing about showing up, taking up space, and enjoying a meal—even if it’s with sticky fingers and dropped forks. Yakiniku @ Japan 1. Pick the Right Spot Scout out kid-friendly cafés. That doesn’t mean loud or plastic. I look for: Outdoor seating Places with high chairs Calm energy + patient staff Spots near a playground or grassy patch (bonus points!) Don’t be afraid to ask for a corner table. Set yourself up to feel relaxed. 2. Come Prepared, Stay Chill Here’s what I pack: A small toy or sensory item for each kid Water bottles Easy, non-crumbly snacks in case food takes too long Wet wipes (don’t skip these… ever) And most importantly: low expectations. If we only stay 15 minutes and everyone is fed-ish? That’s a win. 3. Let Go of the Fear of Judgment Yes, people might look. But most of them are either: A. Thinking “aww” B. Thinking “that mom is amazing” C. Parents who get it  and are silently cheering you on Take a breath. Smile. You belong there. 4. Make It a Weekly Ritual Now, we do café dates once a week. It gives me something to look forward to. It’s my moment to sip a drink, feel like a person, and remind myself I’m still me. Some days are beautiful. Some are messy. But they all matter. Final Thought: You don’t need to wait for a partner, friend, or special occasion to enjoy a simple moment out. Take up space, mama. Set your kids at the table, lift your matcha, and remember: you’re building memories and  modeling courage. You’re not “brave for going out alone.” You’re a mom living life boldly. And your kids are lucky to watch you do it.

Ah, postpartum. That beautiful, messy chapter where you’re healing, leaking from multiple places, sweating through your shirt… and somehow expected to look presentable. Here’s the thing: you can still feel cute—even when you’re running on 3 hours of sleep and dry shampoo. Let’s ditch the pressure to “bounce back” and lean into fashion that feels good, moves with you, and lets you stay stylish and  sane. 1. The New Uniform: Comfy, Chic, and Leak-Friendly Your go-to postpartum outfit doesn’t need to be frumpy OR complicated. Here’s my ride-or-die formula: Nursing Tank + Kimono/Cardigan + Biker Shorts or Wide-Leg Joggers Breathable Easy boob access Covers the belly (if that’s your vibe) Stylish without trying too hard Bonus: The kimono hides milk stains and doubles as a stroller blanket. 2. Shoes You Can Actually Chase Kids In Gone are the days of painful shoes that “look cute but hurt.” You need: Slip-on sneakers (hello, no bending over!) Soft-soled sandals with arch support Stylish clogs or Crocs with mom-core flair Fashion is nothing if you’re limping through Target with a baby on your hip. 3. Upgrade Your Underwear Game Yes, I said it. Your postpartum panties should make you feel secure and  sexy-ish. Look for: High-rise, leakproof undies Seamless nursing bras you can sleep in Maternity shapewear if it makes you  feel good—not because anyone told you to “snap back” Your body is doing heroic things. Dress it with love. 4. Diaper Bags That Slay You deserve a diaper bag that doesn’t scream “mom life meltdown.” Look for one that’s: Backpack style (hands-free FTW) Neutral or earth-toned (easy to match) Full of compartments for wipes, snacks, and chaos control Style is not over—it’s just evolving. Final Thought: You don’t have to “get your body back.” You never lost it. It’s right here, carrying you and your babies through this wild chapter—and it deserves to feel good, supported, and seen. Postpartum fashion isn’t about hiding. It’s about honoring. So wear the cute outfit. Wear the spit-up. Wear the strength.

Let’s talk about something that no one warned me about when I became a mom. The guilt. Not just any guilt—the solo mom guilt  that creeps in every time you want a minute to yourself. Like: ☕️ Wanting to drink your coffee alone in silence 🧖‍♀️ Wanting a weekend where no one touches your body 😶‍🌫️ Wanting to be alone, not because you’re angry—but because your soul is tired Sound familiar? Let’s unpack that guilt, rewrite the narrative, and remind ourselves that needing space isn’t selfish—it’s sacred. 1. The Lie: “If I Really Loved My Kids, I Wouldn’t Need a Break” This is one of those sneaky subconscious beliefs we carry, especially as solo moms. There’s this pressure to overcompensate because we’re “doing it alone.” But here’s the truth: You can love your child with your whole heart and still feel touched out, overstimulated, and in desperate need of solitude. You’re not broken. You’re just human. 2. Reframe “Me Time” as Maintenance, Not Luxury You wouldn’t expect your car to run without fuel. So why expect your body, mind, and nervous system to keep going without rest? What if we flipped the script and said: “Me time is how I stay  a calm, loving mom” “My kids benefit when I take care of myself” “Rest isn’t optional, it’s essential” You don’t need a weekend getaway to reset. Sometimes, 20 minutes with no noise is enough. 3. Take the Time You Can Get You don’t need a nanny or a huge support system to carve out time. Try: A hot shower while the kids are strapped into high chairs with snacks and music Screen time with zero guilt so you can do your skincare A walk around the block while they nap in the stroller These tiny moments add up. You’re allowed to take them—without apologizing. 4. Let Your Kids See You Rest We often say we want our kids to grow up knowing how to care for themselves… but are we modeling it? Let them see you say, “I need a break.” Let them see you read, nap, drink tea. Let them know rest isn’t something to earn —it’s something you deserve . Final Thought: The next time that guilt creeps in, remind yourself: You are not a machine. You are a mom, yes—but you’re also you. And taking time to refill your cup isn’t taking away from your children. It’s giving  them the best version of you.

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